messaging problems

yeah so my messages have been messing up for 3 days and i really dont know why. im sorry. im trying to fix it
the problem is that the little red star is still by ever message even though i reply to them. yes i tried refreshing the page like a million times
so yeah. i'm trying to fix it
sorry everyone. so for the time being um just email me: spiffytrumpet4life@yahoo.com
Thanks everyone :D